{"id":1,"date":"2022-02-07T18:25:23","date_gmt":"2022-02-07T17:25:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ushowte.cluster031.hosting.ovh.net\/?p=1"},"modified":"2022-07-13T12:02:53","modified_gmt":"2022-07-13T10:02:53","slug":"la-separation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.helene-dumont-ccf.com\/index.php\/2022\/02\/07\/la-separation\/","title":{"rendered":"La s\u00e9paration"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section fb_built=\u00a0\u00bb1″ fullwidth=\u00a0\u00bbon\u00a0\u00bb admin_label=\u00a0\u00bbHeader Section\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb3.22″ background_color=\u00a0\u00bb#000000″ custom_padding=\u00a0\u00bb|||\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_fullwidth_header title=\u00a0\u00bbLa s\u00e9paration\u00a0\u00bb text_orientation=\u00a0\u00bbcenter\u00a0\u00bb header_fullscreen=\u00a0\u00bbon\u00a0\u00bb header_scroll_down=\u00a0\u00bbon\u00a0\u00bb scroll_down_icon=\u00a0\u00bb%%2%%\u00a0\u00bb 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Qui ne s’est jamais entendu dire \u00a0\u00ab\u00a0Cette fois-ci, je fais mes valises et je pars\u00a0\u00bb ?<\/strong><\/h3>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]

L’envie de partir, de tout quitter, femme, mari et enfant(s). Cette petite voix qui se faisait dans un premier temps discr\u00e8te occupe\u00a0peu \u00e0 peu tout votre espace psychique et vous perturbe quotidiennement.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

L’envie de partir correspond-elle\u00a0\u00e0\u00a0un fantasme qu’il se faudrait de comprendre\u00a0ou est-elle la r\u00e9ponse \u00e0 une situation conjugale qui ne peut plus durer ?<\/span><\/p>\n

Quand une crise se profile, partir, le plus vite possible peut appara\u00eetre comme une solution :\u00a0la situation n’est pas confortable, on pr\u00e9f\u00e9rerait ne pas la vivre, ou la voir d\u00e9j\u00e0 loin derri\u00e8re soi. Mais le couple peut-il balayer en quelques semaines ou quelques mois plusieurs ann\u00e9es de vie commune, cesser de croire en leurs projets, ne plus accompagner \u00e0 deux sous un m\u00eame toit l’enfant d\u00e9sir\u00e9 ?<\/span><\/p>\n

Nous vous proposons de vous accompagner, en entretien individuel, conjugal ou familial afin de vous permettre de prendre le temps de comprendre ce qu’il se passe.\u00a0Mettre des mots sur les souffrances, les non-dits, semble \u00eatre une attitude\u00a0constructive et responsable avant de prendre une d\u00e9cision de rupture officielle.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=\u00a0\u00bb1″ admin_label=\u00a0\u00bbVideo Title Section\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ background_color=\u00a0\u00bb#388986″ custom_padding=\u00a0\u00bb120px|0px|60px|0px\u00a0\u00bb saved_tabs=\u00a0\u00bball\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_row _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_column type=\u00a0\u00bb4_4″ _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_text _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb header_3_text_color=\u00a0\u00bb#FFFFFF\u00a0\u00bb header_3_line_height=\u00a0\u00bb1.3em\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]

Quand la question de la s\u00e9paration se pose\u2026<\/strong><\/h3>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb text_text_color=\u00a0\u00bb#FFFFFF\u00a0\u00bb header_3_text_color=\u00a0\u00bb#FFFFFF\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]

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    Accompagnement du couple<\/strong>\u00a0:\u00a0\u00ab\u00a0Nous nous posons la question de la s\u00e9paration\u00a0: nous avons besoin d’\u00eatre accompagn\u00e9s dans notre r\u00e9flexion.\u00a0\u00bb<\/span><\/p>\n

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    Accompagnement individuel<\/strong>\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Je me pose la question de la s\u00e9paration, j’ai besoin d’\u00eatre accompagn\u00e9 pour comprendre ce que je vis.\u00a0\u00bb<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    L’enfant n’a pas \u00e0 \u00eatre mis au courant de vos pr\u00e9occupations personnelles et conjugales. Cette d\u00e9marche doit \u00eatre strictement r\u00e9serv\u00e9e \u00e0 l’intimit\u00e9 du couple au risque de faire vivre \u00e0 votre enfant des questionnements anxiog\u00e8nes et d\u00e9stabilisants qu’il n’a pas \u00e0 porter.<\/span><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=\u00a0\u00bb1″ admin_label=\u00a0\u00bbBest Beans\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb3.22″ background_color_gradient_direction=\u00a0\u00bb90deg\u00a0\u00bb custom_padding=\u00a0\u00bb0px|0px|0px|0px\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_row column_structure=\u00a0\u00bb1_2,1_2″ use_custom_gutter=\u00a0\u00bbon\u00a0\u00bb gutter_width=\u00a0\u00bb1″ make_equal=\u00a0\u00bbon\u00a0\u00bb admin_label=\u00a0\u00bbBest Beans Row\u00a0\u00bb module_class=\u00a0\u00bb et_pb_row_fullwidth\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ width=\u00a0\u00bb100%\u00a0\u00bb width_tablet=\u00a0\u00bb100%\u00a0\u00bb width_phone=\u00a0\u00bb100%\u00a0\u00bb width_last_edited=\u00a0\u00bbon|desktop\u00a0\u00bb max_width=\u00a0\u00bb100%\u00a0\u00bb max_width_tablet=\u00a0\u00bb100%\u00a0\u00bb max_width_phone=\u00a0\u00bb100%\u00a0\u00bb max_width_last_edited=\u00a0\u00bbon|desktop\u00a0\u00bb custom_margin=\u00a0\u00bb|||\u00a0\u00bb custom_padding=\u00a0\u00bb0px|0px|0px|0px\u00a0\u00bb make_fullwidth=\u00a0\u00bbon\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_column type=\u00a0\u00bb1_2″ _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb3.25″ custom_padding=\u00a0\u00bb100px|10%|100px|10%\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb custom_padding__hover=\u00a0\u00bb|||\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_text _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb header_3_font_size=\u00a0\u00bb34px\u00a0\u00bb header_3_line_height=\u00a0\u00bb1.3em\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]

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    Prise de d\u00e9cision:
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      Accompagnement du couple<\/strong> : relecture de l’histoire du couple, verbalisation des affects, frustrations et non-dits, soutient \u00e0 la parentalit\u00e9, relecture et organisation nouvelle des fronti\u00e8res (conjugales\/parentales, vie professionnelle\/vie familiale…)<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

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        Accompagnement individuel du conjoint<\/strong>\u00a0:\u00a0\u00ab\u00a0Mon conjoint ne veut pas venir\u00a0\u00bb.\u00a0\u00a0Nous vous accompagnons de fa\u00e7on individuelle dans une relecture de votre histoire personnelle et conjugale. Quand l’un des conjoints se remet en question, il pousse le couple \u00e0 se positionner de fa\u00e7on nouvelle. Un accompagnement seul reste ainsi un bon levier d’\u00e9volution en p\u00e9riode de crise conjugale.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

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          Prise de d\u00e9cision:
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            Accompagnement du couple<\/strong> : <\/span>\u00ab\u00a0Nous avons besoin de nous s\u00e9parer paisiblement, de nous dire des choses.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

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              Accompagnement individuel du conjoint<\/strong> : <\/span>\u00ab J’ai besoin d’\u00eatre accompagn\u00e9, je ne sais plus o\u00f9 j’en suis, je me sens abandonn\u00e9, je culpabilise, je souffre.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

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                Accompagnement de la famille avec le\/les enfant(s)<\/strong> : a<\/span>ccompagner la famille, parents et enfant(s) dans l’annonce de la s\u00e9paration \u00e0 l’enfant.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=\u00a0\u00bb1″ admin_label=\u00a0\u00bbCoffee Menu\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ background_color=\u00a0\u00bbrgba(225,191,123,0.15)\u00a0\u00bb background_enable_image=\u00a0\u00bboff\u00a0\u00bb custom_margin=\u00a0\u00bb-47px|||||\u00a0\u00bb custom_padding=\u00a0\u00bb100px||100px|4px||\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_row _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_column type=\u00a0\u00bb4_4″ _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_text _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb header_3_line_height=\u00a0\u00bb1.3em\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]

                Et les enfants ?<\/strong><\/h3>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=\u00a0\u00bbhttps:\/\/www.helene-dumont-ccf.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/stavrialena-gontzou-unsplash.jpg\u00a0\u00bb title_text=\u00a0\u00bbstavrialena-gontzou-unsplash\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb hover_enabled=\u00a0\u00bb0″ global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb module_alignment=\u00a0\u00bbcenter\u00a0\u00bb align=\u00a0\u00bbcenter\u00a0\u00bb sticky_enabled=\u00a0\u00bb0″][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]

                Les enfants sentent et observent ce qui se vit entre les parents. Les disputes \u00e0 r\u00e9p\u00e9titions susciteront chez eux des questions, bien souvent des angoisses. Les parents doivent \u00eatre honn\u00eates et coh\u00e9rents : parler \u00e0 son enfant de la situation ne signifie pas non plus tout dire.\u00a0<\/p>\n

                \u00c0 la question \u00ab Est-ce que vous allez divorcer ? \u00bb, il faut pouvoir r\u00e9pondre \u00ab Ecoute, en ce moment c’est compliqu\u00e9, on t’expliquera plus tard \u00bb. En acceptant d’entendre la parole de l’enfant, le parent autorise son questionnement, reconna\u00eet sa tristesse. C’est d\u00e9j\u00e0 un premier soulagement : les tensions que l’enfant sentait sont bien r\u00e9elles, il ne s’est pas tromp\u00e9. Aux parents de le rassurer en l’entourant de toute leur affection de parent. En effet, dans ces moments de tumultes conjugaux, les parents doivent rappeler \u00e0 leur enfants qu’ils n’y sont pour rien et que cela ne viendra pas changer leur amour de parent. Mais aussi, charge \u00e0 eux de respecter les fronti\u00e8res \u00e9tablies entre ce qui se vit entre eux et ce qui ce vit avec l’enfant : les enfants n’ont pas \u00e0 \u00eatre t\u00e9moins des disputes et tensions, et si cela peut arriver, les parents doivent faire en sorte que ce soit le moins souvent possible.<\/p>\n

                Dans cette perspective, les parents doivent faire un r\u00e9el effort de cloisonnement : certains propos ne pourront pas \u00eatre tenus devant leur(s) enfant(s), au risque de les pr\u00e9cipiter dans des conflits de loyaut\u00e9, \u00ab Je soutiens maman, mais j’aime papa, comment je fais ? \u00bb, ou dans des r\u00f4les de consolateurs qu’ils n’ont pas \u00e0 assumer \u00ab Je dois \u00eatre tr\u00e8s sage pour faire plaisir, je dois consoler papa ou maman… \u00bb. \u200b<\/p>\n

                Ces conflits sont source d’une grande ins\u00e9curit\u00e9 affective pour l’enfant dont les cons\u00e9quences pourront se manifester par des manifestations psychosomatiques par exemple. Ainsi, quand la situation devient difficile, les parents pourront trouver aupr\u00e8s d’un professionnel un espace de parole possible.<\/p>\n

                C’est pourquoi il ne faut pas h\u00e9siter \u00e0 se faire aider m\u00eame quand la question de la s\u00e9paration n’est pas d’actualit\u00e9. S’interroger sur une possible s\u00e9paration est une \u00e9tape parfois n\u00e9cessaire pour faire avancer un couple dans une situation de crise. Cela ne veut pas dire que le couple va se s\u00e9parer, mais cela signifie que les conjoints ont \u00e9volu\u00e9 et qu’ils doivent penser de fa\u00e7on nouvelle leur fa\u00e7on de vivre et d’\u00ab habiter \u00bb leur couple.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=\u00a0\u00bb1″ admin_label=\u00a0\u00bbVideo Title Section\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ background_color=\u00a0\u00bb#388986″ custom_padding=\u00a0\u00bb65px|0px|60px|0px||\u00a0\u00bb saved_tabs=\u00a0\u00bball\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_row _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_column type=\u00a0\u00bb4_4″ _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_text _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb header_3_text_color=\u00a0\u00bb#FFFFFF\u00a0\u00bb header_3_line_height=\u00a0\u00bb1.3em\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]

                Je vous accompagne dans vos questionnements.<\/strong><\/h3>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb text_text_color=\u00a0\u00bb#FFFFFF\u00a0\u00bb header_3_text_color=\u00a0\u00bb#FFFFFF\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]

                Penser une crise s’est s’autoriser \u00e0 faire vivre les mouvements qui nous habitent pour mieux les d\u00e9passer. Cela ne veut pas dire se s\u00e9parer. Mais en acceptant de vivre une crise, aussi douloureuse soit-elle, les solutions \u00e9mergeront plus facilement et paisiblement, rendant une possible \u00e9laboration de ce qui pourra se vivre dans l’avenir.<\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=\u00a0\u00bb1″ admin_label=\u00a0\u00bbGreat Coffee\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ background_color=\u00a0\u00bb#e2d4c0″ background_image=\u00a0\u00bbhttps:\/\/www.helene-dumont-ccf.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/patrick-langwallner-2-unsplash-2.jpg\u00a0\u00bb parallax=\u00a0\u00bbon\u00a0\u00bb custom_margin=\u00a0\u00bb|||\u00a0\u00bb custom_padding=\u00a0\u00bb10%|0px|10%|0px\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_row column_structure=\u00a0\u00bb1_2,1_2″ module_class=\u00a0\u00bb et_pb_row_fullwidth\u00a0\u00bb _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb3.25″ width=\u00a0\u00bb89%\u00a0\u00bb width_tablet=\u00a0\u00bb80%\u00a0\u00bb width_phone=\u00a0\u00bb80%\u00a0\u00bb width_last_edited=\u00a0\u00bbon|desktop\u00a0\u00bb max_width=\u00a0\u00bb89%\u00a0\u00bb max_width_tablet=\u00a0\u00bb80%\u00a0\u00bb max_width_phone=\u00a0\u00bb80%\u00a0\u00bb max_width_last_edited=\u00a0\u00bbon|desktop\u00a0\u00bb custom_padding=\u00a0\u00bb|||\u00a0\u00bb make_fullwidth=\u00a0\u00bbon\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_column type=\u00a0\u00bb1_2″ _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb3.25″ custom_padding=\u00a0\u00bb|||\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb custom_padding__hover=\u00a0\u00bb|||\u00a0\u00bb][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=\u00a0\u00bb1_2″ _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb3.25″ custom_padding=\u00a0\u00bb|||\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb custom_padding__hover=\u00a0\u00bb|||\u00a0\u00bb][et_pb_text _builder_version=\u00a0\u00bb4.14.9″ _module_preset=\u00a0\u00bbdefault\u00a0\u00bb header_3_text_color=\u00a0\u00bb#FFFFFF\u00a0\u00bb header_3_line_height=\u00a0\u00bb1.3em\u00a0\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00a0\u00bb{}\u00a0\u00bb]

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                  Ne pas mentir et ne pas tout dire.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n

                • Diff\u00e9rer, si besoin, une r\u00e9ponse ou faire appel \u00e0 une tierce personne.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n
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                  Autoriser l’enfant \u00e0 exprimer son ressenti, l’aider \u00e0 le verbaliser.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                  Reconna\u00eetre et dire qu’un papa et une maman peuvent se disputer.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                  Respecter les places de chacun\u00a0: les adultes et les enfants.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                  Assurer son enfant de son amour inconditionnel.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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